Author Archives: Annie

About Annie

I am an occasionally confident, mostly comfortable woman. That hasn't always been the case, but, I have to say, it feels good to be at this place in my life now! As a mother, wife, sister, daughter, and friend I hope to inspire, educate, and grow with all my readers through this blog. I embrace life and strive to find a refreshing glass of lemonade no matter how many lemons life tosses my way. I'm glad you're joining me on this journey. Cheers!

Uncomfortable Unknown

I had a professor in grad school, Charlie, who used to say that clients – I was in school to be a therapist – that clients often had a hard time changing because the uncomfortable known is easier that the … Continue reading

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Month of the Military Child

The Military Child.  Some are fondly called brats.  Most are called resilient by many.  Three are called mine.  Those three aren’t brats and they’re downright tired of being resilient.

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It’s All Valid

Several years ago I, a Navy wife, was talking to my sister, an Army wife.  Her husband was deployed in a war zone on a year-long tour with one R&R period.  My husband was out to sea on a couple … Continue reading

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Thoughts on Prayers

Everyone from The Mamas and The Papas to Beyoncé to Disturbed has songs about prayers. In fact, it’s something people not only sing about, but they talk about it too. “I’ll pray for you.” “My prayers are with you.” “Would … Continue reading

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Witness

I sometimes often need to see or hear something more than once for the message to start to sink in.  First I’m all, “Huh, that’s interesting.”  Then, “Weird…just read that yesterday” or “Cool, this song has a very similar message … Continue reading

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Lighting the Way

I’m still over here trying to find the path for me.  I’ve been doing a lot of growth work – classes, meditation, Tai Chi, Tarot…and it’s been incredible!  I’ve realized a few things.  The biggest one?

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Not Done Yet

Perimenopause.  I’m not sure when the term came about.  Growing up, I remember hearing that hot flashes and mood swings were part of menopause, but it seems that today’s doctors are being slightly more precise and that those two symptoms … Continue reading

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my depression

I was depressed.  At the time I couldn’t say it.  For the first few weeks, I didn’t know it.  Maybe I wasn’t actually depressed in those first couple of weeks.  Maybe depression snuck up on me from a place of … Continue reading

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Lost in a Fog

It’s been more than six months since I’ve posted anything here.  In fact, it’s been that long since I’ve sat down to type.  I don’t know if I’ll be back regularly now or not, but I do feel called to … Continue reading

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Interpreting My Signs

I’ve written before about wanting neon signs to light my path.  I guess I’ve thought I needed clear and obvious direction that the choices I’m making are the right choices.  As I recognized in a post (Simple Beauty) a few … Continue reading

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